May 3, 2025
As I’ve been doing since the start of this blog, let’s peel back the curtain and look at our household spending for last year.
Some of you are bound to read through it and think “is that all!”
While others will definitely be able to see the areas where there’s a lot of, say, padding 🙂
In fact, the sub-heading for this article should be Lifestyle Inflation Continues.
The aim with these posts is to give you a transparent look at how we live and what we spend.
So, how do things look now, after living through a supposed ‘cost of living crisis’ and ‘spiraling inflation’ for the last few years?
Before we get into the numbers, some context…
— We’re a couple living a semi-retired lifestyle after becoming financially independent in 2017. We currently have no dependents, other than a couple of chickens.
— In 2022, we purchased an old house in Perth to live in and have since renovated it (which is finished now, thankfully!)
— We enjoy our free time, lead a very comfortable yet relatively simple life. We like spending time on our hobbies, being in nature, and going out for the odd coffee or bite to eat.
— Mrs SMA works 2 days per week in government admin. I pretty much just do this stuff from home – blogs, podcasts, my book, and some investing articles over at Pearler.
— We do and buy whatever we need and anything else that seems worthwhile, without following any kind of budget. There are no ‘allowances’ – it’s just freestyle spending and I tally it up later.
Okay, with all that said, let’s get into the numbers.
In our previous spending report, I revealed that our total for 2023 was $54,516. So, how did we go in 2024?
You know what’s funny?
These numbers are almost as surprising to me as they might be to you. Because even though I’ve been filling in the expenses during the year, I don’t really look or even try and guess what the totals are gonna be.
So when you say a category and go, “Hmm, that ones much higher/lower then last year” I’m doing the same 😂
And I must confess, there’s actually more to throw on top…
We also finished renovating the house, spending another… $35,000. This included solar panels, a patio, carport, and converting an oversized laundry into a second bathroom, irrigation, and a new back fence.
Plus, the above figure is simply interest on our mortgage. If you count principal, that adds another $8,000 or so.
Mortgage note: People debate whether to count principal as an expense or saving. In reality, it’s both. The money doesn’t disappear like an expense. But it also must be paid from cashflow. Those dollars simply morph from cash/savings to become home equity. So you’ll have to choose your own method of measurement.
Anyway, that puts the total outflows for the year at just over $100,000, which feels insane if I’m being honest. It was, by far, our most expensive year.
And holy shit – I nearly finished this post before remembering we also spent like $60k on a new car! As a result, we didn’t invest much in 2024, which is slightly annoying.
The difference, of course, is that you don’t do these things every year. And we wouldn’t have renovated this house or bought the car if it would affect our financial independence. But still, it should be noted for completeness.
With a couple of tweaks, this could easily be brought to around $50,000. Lots of places could be trimmed, but the two most obvious are food/dining and travel. We could also quite easily rent out a room in this house to generate another $15,000.
A few thoughts and, um, ‘reasoning’ behind our expenses.
Housing: Our home loan has been fully debt recycled, so this interest is tax deductible against our investment income, making it cheaper ‘after-tax’. But it’s left here in total for completeness. We also got some tree works done which explains the extra cost this year.
Food & Dining: I always get comments around “how are your groceries SO LOW.” Our grocery bill doesn’t seem to get higher since we’ve been doing more eating out, so it’s a simple category hack 😉 But in general, we rarely eat meat so that would have an impact.
Another thing that nobody seems to think about: we aren’t big people, at something like 65kg and 55kg. People who are 20% bigger are probably going to spend 20% more on groceries – add in a bunch of meat and few other treats and you’re probably looking at 50% extra cost.
Travel: This included a 12 day trip to Darwin (and an extra trip for Mrs SMA), a 10 day trip within WA, and 16 days in Thailand. As most readers will know, we did mostly local trips with our dog until he passed away in mid 2023 (which I wrote about here). So this category will increase as we deliberately do more travel. We just went to Malaysia, and our next trip may be Japan.
Transport: Cheaper now thanks to no petrol since March 2023. Insurance is more expensive (full comp vs third party), but maintenance is zero so far. Also got a speeding fine lol.
Utilities: This is still low due to electricity credits from the local and federal government (though not as much as last year when we got triple the allowance due to a stroke of fortunate timing).
Miscellaneous: No more cancer treatment for our dog (unfortunately). The ‘Other’ category includes two passport renewals, and a new wardrobe for the spare room. We also spent more on clothes and gifts this year, but not much else to write about in these categories.
By the way, if there are any areas you’d like more info on, let me know in the comments. Hopefully I can remember what the expenses were for!
Here’s a visual of the spending broken down by categories, which really highlights where the money is going…
I’m guessing quite a few household are shaped this way, even if the numbers are different. Your personal expenses are likely going to come down to 3 things:
— Where you live
— What you eat
— The places you go
Put another way, a large part of your spending is driven by housing, food, travel and transport. All are controllable to a certain degree as well.
Plus, one more that’s not showing up here – how many people are in your household AKA if you have kids or not.
This seems to be the 80/20 rule in full effect.
And just for fun, I decided to chart our spending over the years since I started officially recording it for this blog back in 2018…
If you want to see and hear more about what we got up to during 2024, I shared all that in the following articles, including our travels:
Looking Back on 7 Years of Freedom
Results from the First Tesla Roadtrip
I’d like to take a moment to share how I think about our finances right now.
Having reached FI, our wealth has continued to grow and is now more than we need to sustain ourselves. We also have part-time income which covers our spending, but is essentially ‘bonus money’.
So if there’s an extra $50,000 flowing in, would it matter if we spent $20,000 of that? Well, no. We’d still end up with $30,000 of bonus money after a year.
And $20,000 would be A LOT of extra spending money, for a couple who’s used to spending around $50,000 per year. That’s like a $100,000 couple giving themselves an extra $40,000 – a huge boost in spending capacity.
The reason I say all this is to point out a few important things:
1- Our expenses are not increasing primarily due to ‘inflation’ and ‘the cost of living’. These are by design, and part of a conscious shift in how we’re choosing to live.
2- I continue to see all of these expenses as controllable and adjustable. I don’t consider my current spending as a new ‘baseline’ or minimum level for living a happy life. That’s a weak and pampered mindset to operate with.
3- We are spending more now because of the surplus described. If our finances take a big hit and things aren’t so cushy, this spending could EASILY be ratcheted down and optimised. I mean, when I look at it, things look extremely sloppy compared to how it could be 😅
4- I would not be content with this level of spending if I was still having to work all week to pay for it. I’d spend less on everything. But as your situation improves, even after reaching FI, there’s nothing wrong with relaxing a bit and spending more. In fact, I think it’s a healthy way to reward yourself.
I’m always at pains to say a version of this, because I don’t want anyone to get the wrong idea. But hopefully that gives you some context on the situation and how I think about this stuff.
As I’ve said before, your mindset needs to evolve as much as your finances do. Or you’ll end up with millions of dollars and drowning in dividends, while you waste your mental energy worrying about which brand of rice to buy.
As you can see, we’re essentially now optimising more for enjoyment than cost and deliberately choosing to spend more in some areas.
So, our costs are going up by design and choice, rather than helplessness and compulsion.
Well, that’s how I justify it anyway 😁
I hope that gives you a good idea of how we’re living our lives behind the scenes and what ‘retired’ life is looking like these days.
As for 2025, here’s how I can see our spending shaping up this year…
— Possibly more spent on travel, as we do a bit more exploring.
— Mortgage interest might go down if rates keep falling and as the balance goes down.
— No works on the house, or other big purchases. I’m very happy about this actually – I’d much rather invest than spend more on the house.
How do you expect your spending to change this year? Did you have an expensive 2024 like us, or was it more frugal? Let me know in the comments.
Thanks for reading!
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Thanks for this insight. Very interesting. What do you do for entertainment and/ or hobbies?
I don’t really think about hobbies or entertainment as any different to my normal life. Meaning, the things I do I think of as hobbies and I also find them entertaining and enjoyable to do.
This whole Strong Money thing is a hobby. Nature walks are a hobby. So is exercise. Investing. Volunteering. Meeting friends or going out for coffee/food. Learning. Some travel. Then of course there’s the obvious things like movies etc. But I definitely don’t feel a lack of stimulation.
That might sound odd since we usually compartmentalise these things, but I’ve found that the best kind of life for me is one where there’s no real separation between work, hobbies, entertainment, and free time. It all just kind of blends into one because your life is designed in such a way that it all feels like one big entertaining hobby.
Thanks for sharing the article about your spending—it was a great read and gave me a lot to think about.
One thing I’ve been wrestling with as I move toward Financial Independence and making work optional is figuring out what daily life actually looks like in this new phase. I’m really curious: What does a typical day or week look like for you now? How do you structure your time, and what activities give your days meaning and energy?
Also, when you meet someone new or you’re at a social event and someone inevitably asks, “So, what do you do?”—how do you respond? I’d love to craft an answer that not only captures their attention but leads to a conversation that lasts a few minutes and sparks genuine interest. I’m aiming for something that invites curiosity and prompts follow-up questions rather than shutting the conversation down.
I wrote about how to deal with conversations like that in this post: https://strongmoneyaustralia.com/how-to-deal-with-those-awkward-fire-conversations/
It can look however you want it to look, which will take some experimentation to figure out what suits you best. I’m writing a lot about this in the second book, including meaning/purpose etc.
Personally for me, my days are most commonly a combination of the following: morning/evening walks, writing/content stuff, some weight training, reading, relaxing/thinking, and often I’ll meet a friend for coffee for a few hours or go out with Mrs SMA somewhere. Of course there’s other stuff, but that’s the foundation of where a lot of time goes and it’s simple but just how I like it.
I really appreciate the insight to your living expenses. All too often we keep them private and struggle along, hoping, we might pay off the home and have enough for ever after.
It would be interesting to apply percentages to your figures. Including change over time. Sometimes the smallest percentage change
can make such a difference in our spending habits.
Thanks Nathan. Just out of curiosity, what figures would you like percentages applied to?
Hi Dave,
Thanks for sharing once again. For what it’s worth, I don’t think you need to justify your additional spending at all. Deliberately increasing spending as your passive (and active) income streams increase and your capital assets are growing is optimal. If you didn’t, you would essentially be wasting it, in terms of opportunity cost. Life is about living and you only get one crack at the championship. The last thing you’d want to happen is to die with too much money left over but be full of regrets about what experiences you missed out on.
Subject switch; In terms of groceries, I think meat makes a big difference. My household consists of 3 males (55, 20 & 17 – all fit and active) and 1 female (51). Our yearly totals have been 2021 – $18.0K, 2022 and 2023 – $17.5K, and 2024 $19.8K. Supermarket costs have risen, we only eat out 2 to 3 meals a month and these totals include breakfast, lunch and dinner for 4 (everyone makes their own lunches from home etc).
Enjoy your week!
Haha, you’re right and I totally agree – I’m just poking a bit of fun at myself while also wanting to be transparent and explain my thoughts fully so there’s no confusion (as there often is when someone’s behaviour/choices change).
Damn that’s a high grocery bill, but when with double headcount plus meat I can see how it would be 3x or more. Great that everyone makes their own lunch too!
Thanks for transparently sharing your spending. Designing your spending to your needs/wants that’s financial freedom! The big three for our household in 2024 were housing, gifts and food (travel came in 4th). In 2025 we are taking a mini-retirement for 4.5 months. I reckon it will be travel, housing and food (gifts will be 4th). We give to family who live overseas out of generosity and not obligation. I should probably blog about the immigrant side of things one of these days 😊
Very nice! I do think the immigrant aspect of conversation will resonate with a lot of people, so definitely do that.
Thanks again Dave for your transparency. Enjoy reading your blogs mate
Thanks Jarrod!
Nice breakdown, are you going to do one for income also?
I share my investment income in the portfolio updates I do occasionally. The latest one is here: https://pearler.com/explore/learn/blog/investment-update-strong-money-australia-november-2024
In terms of part-time income, Mrs SMA is about $30k. Mine is a bit higher than that but fluctuates quite a lot. Hope that helps.